
Charlotte pooped in the tub yesterday. Good thing she's cute. Her actions prompted a thorough cleaning of the kids' bathroom. As I knelt scrubbing the tub, I thought of a conversation I had recently with a friend. We were both lamenting the fact that we're perpetually behind on the housework. I half-jokingly mentioned that I should hire someone to clean my bathrooms so I'd have time for other things. To which, my friend replied, "No. You should hire someone to watch the kids so you can clean the bathrooms."
This exchange has caused me much thought.
Pay someone to play with the kids so I can clean the house, or pay someone to clean the house so I can play with the kids? OK, so hired help is not even remotely in the question; but if it were, I know which one I'd pick. And as for my friends who do have cleaning help, I fear I've completely misjudged your motives. Now I get it...and I admire your decision.